To make a long story short, I lost my job and my SO is paying for all bills related to our apartment. He is not happy about it (I understand) and it is starting to affect our relationship. I am ride or die for him. I always do things to make him happy. Since being laid off I have been the one to cook, clean, etc etc. I always show interest in what's going on with his life and listen and try to give good advice. He was away for 2 days with the fire department guys and I decorated his man cave. I leave him notes when I leave the house and he's sleeping (he works non traditional hours). I am constantly job searching and he knows it. It's not like I am sitting around all day enjoying my time at home. I also have a 2 year old. I am getting unemployment which is covering my personal expenses (car, phone, anything for my son). I'm also doing all the food shopping and buying anything we need for the apartment.

Lately, I have been getting NOTHING back. He rarely tells me he loves me, doesn't show any interest in my life. I wasn't feeling well last week and he didn't even ask me what was wrong or show any concern. He does tell me he's stressed and annoyed with spending so much money and I understand but do I deserve to be treated like I barely exist? I've been keeping this bottled up inside and finally let it all out to him last night through text when he was at work (not the best way to communicate I know). He never replied and acted like I didn't say anything this morning. 😩

How can I fix this? I feel like I do so much to show him how much he means to me. And I constantly tell him how much I appreciate him taking care of us right now financially. I'm just getting exhausted.