He doesn't care if I dress up. He doesn't care if I wear heels or make up. He thinks messy buns are cute. He doesn't notice when it's been awhile since I picked up a tweezer. When I am putting in the effort to look my best, he makes comments about how long it takes me. He rather see me with no makeup, tshirt and sweats.

On one hand I get that this means he loves me for me. He's not superficial and doesn't need all the extra primping to think I'm beautiful.

On the other hand, it depresses me that it doesn't make a difference if I put in the effort or not. If I get dolled up for him, I would like for him to get excited about it.

Idk if I'm being stupid or if I'm just nitpicking because I'm a Sahm who is bored out of my mind!

Thoughts?