So as soon as I found out I was pregnant- baby daddy was out. Made it clear he wants nothing to do with either of us. That's fine

But I'm having a hard time trying to figure out how to announce? I kind of feel silly. And him and I were never in a full on relationship- so I know I'm gonna get the "who's the father" question and what not. I know I could avoid it all for now by keeping it secret but I don't feel like that's fair- I want to experience what everyone else gets to- I want the cute announcement- I want the gender reveal- etc.....

We also have a lot mutual "friends" who I'm will be more negative than positive...

So I was wondering how anyone else may have gone about this.....??