Does this sound sketchy??? Please read 😢

Hey ladies! So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. When I met him he had a dating app, he showed me the app and deleted it just to reassure that he is crazy about me. The reason why he showed it because he did tell me in the past he had an issue with cheating on women and those days are long over. I appreciate his honesty and was hoping he would be different.

Well despite for deleting the app, he still gets notifications from the site because he never deleted his account! He actually told me about how women would like to chat with him but he says he doesn’t do anything.

What questions me is that I catch him swiping yes or no on girls pics. And I even saw where he matched with different girls and also favorites different girls. When I confront him about it he gets super defensive and explains to me that he needs to pay money in order to talk with them... and that he is innocent for just swiping!

Now would you consider this a red flag? He makes me sound like I’m crazy that nothing is going on... but yet when we are walking or at the mall he would rudely comment on a girl’s appearance and say sexual comments about her in front of me and tells me I’m too sensitive or overacting how he comments about other girls.

About a month ago, I wanted to leave him because I wasn’t happy in our relationship (we live together). I told him how I felt and how he has been treating me. For the most part he denies but was crying and begging me to stay and not leave. Basically making me feel like I’m the bad guy and that I’m overreacting. He HAS flirted with women in the past but never took it to the next level... I just don’t know if I can trust him anymore, and don’t want to be around him when he is like that. He is very jealous but denies it. He doesn’t like me leaving the house, or have friends, or questions me if I’m meeting up with a man. When I confront about it,he laughs and says he is only joking and again making me feel like I’m sensitive and over reacting. He brags about how women compliment him and how some comment about me and say that he can do better... he says this stuff religiously like I should be happy that I have a man like him... but it doesn’t make me feel that. It only lowers my self esteem more. I asked him to stop telling me but he won’t listen. Please tell me if I’m over reacting or I know I need to leave him. Please feel free to comment 😢