HELP ME!

So I've been with my current boyfriend for a while now and have only been with one other guy before. I never had an orgasm with my first partner. Now it took a little while to start somewhat having an orgasm with my boyfriend. I get a tingling orgasm sensation that gets stronger and stonger to a certain point before I all of a sudden lose it. It just disappears and I feel no relief. Anyone have any tips or answers as to why I keep losing my orgasms?! I can't take it anymore! I am a squirter but I don't end up squirting after I feel the heightened tingling sensation. The same thing happens when I masturbate! I need a release. Please help!!