Needing to vent...

I've been married to the love of my life for 9 months now. And we just can't get the sex down. I'm horny 24/7 and he is only sometimes. When we dated he was the one always horny. Now it seems to be the thing that upsets us. I've tried so many things. I've tried to spice things up or to not put pressure on him so he doesn't over think things. I thought sex would be easy. But it seems to be the most difficult part in our relationship.

All I want is some crazy spontaneous sex.

Idk how to get pass this.