Vaginal Help😭please

Long story short. The circled areas my skin is sensitive. Skin looks irritated but also has like a..unpleasant ..idk what to call it. But also where labium minor is pointing I have a white head but not a white head?😬 I popped it a few hours ago which I probably shouldn't have. But yea it doesn't look like a typical white head anymore. I have two hairs in it and don't know what to do. It hurts so much to even pull a little. It does hurts when I pee also. Can't explain where or why exactly. Idk if it's in or if it's bc it's touch the open white head. Also I had a foul discharge the other day. Is it a uti? Yeast infection and in grown hair? Herpes ? I put monistat on the skin. I've tried carmex, dry skin cream. And it's still there with the occasional,..( idk what to call it but It's something🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️I have to get a towel and whip)