Do I loose my virginity now?! HELP

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Backstory- I love my boyfriend and he loves me...he asked me if I was ready to have sex and at the time I said no and he told me that’s perfectly ok because he will wait for me when I’m ready so it can be sentimental for the both of us...that was about 3 months ago. Since then I’ve been thinking about it and I think I want to take that step...the thing is I’m only 14 am I a bad person for being interested so young ? And should I have sex with him? Please share your first time experiences so I know how to mentally prepare myself if that’s the choice I decide to make😊

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If you have to ask us, you're not ready. Just wait a little till you're older. Like you said, you want it to be sentimental. Just wait a couple years, at least 16 or whatever age is legal for consensual sex. You're pretty young and you don't need to worry about sex right now. If you do, pleaseeeeee use protection.

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The fact that you're coming here and ask if you're ready shows you're not. Sex isn't just about laying down and doing the deed. Are you ready for all the emotions that come from sex? Are you on birth control or have considered a form of protection? Have you guys talked about what would happen if you get pregnant? If you decide to get an abortion if you do get pregnant are you ready for all the emotions that you would go through? If you're ready for all of that then by all means go for it. But I do believe you're too young and you're not ready to do so

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Wait until ur about 16, you would probably know more about it when ur 16 then u do now and your probably thinking i know everything but my niece lost her virginity when she was 13 and now regrets it. But if your willing to loose it then go ahead but don't forget to use protection ❤️❤️

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you aren't a bad person for wanting to have sex but I think you should wait.. when you're older you'll look back and think "man I really was very young to make that decision".. I lost mine at 14 or 15 and I wish I had waited because I wasn't ready

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I was ready at 14 also . I did it . I don't regret anything that happened . But I wished I should've waited like another year but I turn 15  on October 25 so it was close another . I still remember anything that happened .

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Disclaimer: I'm 27 and married now. 
I was 16 when I lost my virginity. He was 19. We were both virgins. I was on birth control. We were together until I was 22. 
Wait awhile. 14 is pretty young, mentally and physically. When I think back to the couple of guys I dated when I was 14 I literally cringe lol So who knows, you might not even be into him in a couple of years. Enjoy being young and don't complicate your relationship by adding sex into the mix.

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I'm 16 and I still have my virginity but sex is okay but there are effects to sex, you could get pregnant or something. Yes you're young and so am I but you have to really ask yourself and when you have the answer in your heart go with it but please remember there are effects to sex and that you are young and beautiful and you have your whole life in front of you, it is okay to wait. Do it when you are ready. Not because someone asked if your ready✨ good luck, hoped I helped.

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If you guys both love each other and are comfortable with each other, I'd say go for it!

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For me, personally, I would wait. I'm wayyy to scared of pregnancy. Also some guys can be dicks about it after so you have to be 100% positive that he's the one you want to lose your virginity to.

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I've been out with a few people but never felt confident to go the full way until this year. And I am 24 btw. I'm glad I waited that long. But I know what it's like if you badly want it lol. Besides, if I'm being honest to your question are you too young, I'd say yes. Because the legal age is 16 where I am so even though if you do have sex I'd advise to be very safe, I'd prefer if you waited a couple more years at least.

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