I don’t know if this is where I post this, but here we go. I am 25 years old and I’m a virgin. I have never had a Pap smear or a breast exam. I think I’m scared about the Pap smear because I’ve never had anything bigger than a finger in my vagina, I don’t even wear tampons. I’m worried about them ripping me. I have a bf right now and I’m thinking about getting on birth control and I know I have to get a Pap smear to get birth control. Is it really that bad and does it hurt to get one? Please help calm me down so I can finally schedule one.