My mom keeps telling me all the things that were wrong with her while pregnant with me. I’m her oldest. I understand that she thinks she is helping because she is worried it might be wrong with me too but all it’s doing is stressing me out and making me worry that something could be wrong. She is trying to butt in to everything and tell me her “opinions” on how things should be done but it really means “it should be done this way or it’s wrong” because if I get a disagree or say that this is my baby I want to figure it out on my own I get this look like

I don’t know what to do. It’s making my boyfriend mad that she’s turning this all about her and making me cry almost everyday since I’ve found out. I tell her that I want to figure this out and she gets all upset and ignores me like a child when moments before she says she’ll step back and let me. I don’t know what to do. I’m just ready for tomorrow to be over with.