I have been on and off with a guy for about 5 months now. I'm very hesitant to finally settle down with him. I'm in high school. I don't know if I want to be tied up in a relationship. there is also the fact that he's graduating high school this year and I don't know how trusting I can be. I don't like the long distance thing at all. If we started dating I don't think I could stay with him when he left. plus the first time we broke he was saying some pretty terrible things about me to my ex Best friend and that worried me. He also dated a girl right after we broke up and he apparently really liked me. how does that work? he chose a girl he knew I was having problems with and dated her for about 4 days. There's more to his list of crap but I think I might love him. Should I even give him another shot?