Boyfriend/ porn??!!!

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I just found porn in my boyfriends phone and I’m completely offended because if he’s horny he can just have sex with me. Why watch porn and jerk off to another women’s body? I just feel like I’m not enough. He’s an amazing person to me and he treats me special but porn really? Am i overreacting?

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No, you're response is totally normal and understandable, but before working yourself too much (trust me, I've done the same thing), just talk to him and tell him you snooped. I told my boyfriend that I went into his phone and deleted all of the porn subreddits on his Reddit account and he was just like "okay".. He still follows some porn stars and suicide girls on his insta and I honestly need to talk to him about it cuz I was trying to be cool, but it just drives me nuts cuz anyone can see who you follow, that's how I know.. like he told me he'd been deleting them as any showed up on his feed, so I just don't want to bring it up again and wish I'd never even looked, but I can't help myself. I just like to drive myself crazy🤦‍♀️ I'm trying to become more comfortable with the thought of porn, but I just can't. Just be honest and tell him like "yo I'm right here, open for business!! Hello!!" Lol cuz I'd feel the same way and have..

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sometimes you dont want to have sex and would rather masturbate. its not usually meant personally or anything. like for me, masturbating is kinda just an amusing relaxing thing. i might not have even been horny to do it. and porn is just a quick way to stimulate yourself into arousal instead of laying there and fantasizing about something. and sometimes its hard to do that depending on your mindset. stressed, scatterbrained, whatever. i doubt it has anything to do with u tbh, dont take it personally. plus its his body and he cam jerk off whenever he wants lol

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Guys all do this lol it's normal.

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Yes, you are overreacting.

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Yes on the overreacting
But you should tell him how you feel, too. But when you're not there and not available, he's still gotta take care of his urges 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Tell him how you feel. Tell him that you don't like the idea of him watching other woman and maybe offer to even record or take pictures of yourself that can replace his online porn

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Have you talked to him about when he watched it? do you know for sure you were available? could it have just been he was stressed out and needed a quick release? Was it out of boredom? Me and mine both masturbate independently of each other at times for these reasons and probably more that I'm not thinking of right now. Girls and guys do this so imo it's not a huge deal. if you're really offended go talk to him about it

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Been with my husband for eight years. He has watched porn for all eight, even tried to get me to watch it. 
Like others said, he isn't physically with another woman, I see no problem.

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I watch porn

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Yes you're overreacting, it's a phone screen. It's not like he's going out and having sex with other women. Masturbation is normal

Boyfriend/ porn??!!!

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