So before me and my husband got married he told me he wanted kids when we got married. We got married and he made an excuse to wait until we get our own house instead of renting and so we got a house and his next excuse was I needed a better job. ( we can afford a child without my income) I told my husbsnd if he didn't want a child I would go back to colege for another degree and he said to go back to school. Now that I got a pay raise he says he wants to wait til I'm done with school. I have endometriosis and so it will make it harder to get pregnant but my husband is in denial.