My nephew lives with me, my 2 year old, my mom, and my stepdad. Tomorrow is my mom and stepdads 12th anniversary, well instead of my mother asking me if I could watch my nephew she just told me I was. Then got angry when I told her I wouldn’t.

First off, his mom (my sister) lives literally four houses down from us, she’s not working tomorrow she could watch HER child (the only reason he lives with us is because he wanted to not because of anything else he doesn’t even want to anymore but my mom will not let him move back because she thinks he’ll “regret it” since he’s only 7) Second, every time I’ve ever asked my mom to watch my son she refuses. Third, tomorrow is the last day the fair is in town and I wanted to go with my son and friend, it would’ve been my sons first time going now that he’s old enough and I was excited to take him. Now she’s throwing things up in my face and basically trying to make me feel bad. I’m just pissed because if she would’ve ASKED me a few days or a week before I wouldn’t have been upset and thought about it, but it’s the fact that she came in here and told me that like I don’t have a choice, that made me upset. I mean am I wrong?

**The reason I can’t take my nephew to the fair is there will be no room, it’s going to be me, my son and his big car seat, my friend, her boyfriend, and their 2 year old daughter in her big car seat in a small car. I probably should’ve included that before. I would take him if we had room but we don’t.