Poor decision making skills!?

So I've noticed a lot of woman posting topics about smoking marijuana & tobacco, drinking alcohol, riding motorcycles while pregnant, or asking if adoption is the wright choice when they're in their late 20s to mid 30s. Am I the only one who thinks this is beyond ridiculous!? Like I don't mean to come off as mommy shamer... but damn! Makes me so crazy that an innocent baby is going to rely on the care of this person! I just don't get it!? By no means do I feel I am the perfect mother and eat all organic foods blah blah... I just think decisions like this are common sense and if you can't make the right one... What are you going to do when your child needs you to make a crucial decision for him/her!? 😤😓😰🙌