Would you feel hurt?!

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Here’s the back story: 
I am trying to go off of caffeine and right now is the hardest part of the transition. I feel exhausted, my hands are shaky, and I’m not focusing super well (I’m kinda addicted to caffeine) 
My boyfriend isn’t trying to go off of caffeine or anything, but he’s offered to support me in my going off of it. 
So here is a text where I’m reaching out for the first time to him asking for support:

Would you be upset by an answer like his??? Cause I am... and I just don’t know how to respond and I feel so hurt at his telling me he has caffeine right now, and calling himself a failure when he isn’t even trying to do the same thing.

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I honestly think you’re overreacting. You’re the one who chose to quit caffeine, not him. Like one of the posters said, you’re probably feeling more extreme emotions because of the withdrawal. It’s normal. But remember it’s not your boyfriends fault! Good luck!

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He told you good job. He is supporting you. wtf.

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You're not supposed to just cold turkey shit like this if you wanna succeed at quitting. Terrible plan. Decrease at a slow pace.

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youre totally over reacting.  he was trying to make a joke. dont be a butt because youre ill from trying to stay away from it. give the guy a break.

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I think you're overreacting... by a lot, honestly. But to answer your question, no.. I would not be mad by his response. Not at all.

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You're definitely overreacting. You're probably on edge due to the lack of caffeine. He was messing around... nothing to get offended about.

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Aww that pour baby it's ok honey I think your overreacting a little, your boyfriend is so sweet to say that

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I think you're overreacting.  It was your choice to give up caffeine and you can't expect him to do it because you're doing it.  He was just joking and cheering you on in his own way.  Please just take a deep breath and calm down

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Kind of but you may be over reacting a bit because of caffiene withdrawals.

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No. He's not a licensed therapist or psychologist. He's not going to know what "magic" words to use. He's trying to support you in his own way. I think he might not be taking you that serious if he was going to actually send you a picture if his drink though. That would've been a bit childish. I wouldn't get pissed about it though. Just an eye roll maybe lol

Would you feel hurt?!

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