should I be upset...

my husband and I were sexting since he drives truck and is on the road a lot. he brought up nipple/clit piercings saying he would like me to get it done...then he starts to go off on how getting your clit pierced will make you get off easier and more often... I was confused and asked "how do you know this" and he replied "well at bartender I worked with along time ago had one and showed me and she told me.... then proceeded to say " its crazy fun when I play with it with my tongue".... to me he just admitted he also went down on this woman that he is bringing into our convo... idk I was pretty done talking by that point... totally killed the mood... am I wrong?!? Am I overreacting...