Me and my mother in law are in the outs. We use to live with her and me and my husband got an apartment because we weren't getting along. My son is 5 months old and I am a protective FTM. I don't like my MIL feeding my son taste of sweet things or feeding him bits and pieces as he may choke. My husband works 8 hours away and comes home every 2 weeks. Well because me and my MIL don't get along now she doesn't want me to come over. However she wants my husband when he comes in to bring my son over there to see her without me. Not that I don't trust my husband but I am with my son 24:7 and I don't like him going anywhere without me let along somewhere I'm not welcome. I told my MIL she's welcome to come over and see our son or ME and my husband can bring my son to see her but I'm not going to let my son go somewhere where I am not welcome. And she says I'm trying to keep him from her and that I'm not trusting my husband to take care of our son when he takes him there by himself. But since we are married I think it's awfully disrespectful that she thinks it's okay for my husband to take our child over there while I sit at home by myself because she is disliking me at the moment. Am I wrong? Am I being to strict? I worry about what she might do if my husband is hanging out with his brother or goes outside and isn't watching him and my MIL isn't respecting my parental rules and guidelines. What do you guys think? I'm not trying to keep my son from his grandparents but he is my child and why would I want my child in the care of someone who doesn't want me around? Who doesn't let me be around?