Just got married 3 weeks ago

I just got married September 9th. Both my husband and I waited until marriage to have sex for the first time. We have done it at least 6 times. I’ve been having a hard time getting out of my head and enjoying it. This past time we had sex I got a little more into it to where it didn’t hurt as bad. Does it get better? Because right now it still really hurts. We tried doing it this morning and I was in my head again so there was like no pleasure for me and by the time I started to relax he was done. Like I’m not feeling anything really but pain. Is that normal? Suggestions? And he feels bad because he’s done before me.