Announcing BFP to hubby after recent early miscarriage

2 months ago I had a BFP. After a year of trying I was so emotional, bawling telling my hubby. I couldn't stop crying, he thought something was wrong! I feel so bad because I ruined the "movie-like" special announcement to him....and then.. I had an early miscarriage- 5 weeks. Well 2 months later, I am now 3 days late with my period. I am scared to death to test. Praying for good news, but my biggest question is how will I tell him if I get a positive??! I want to make it special, but I'm also scared to make the announcement a big deal... What if I miscarry again? I can't see myself waiting long enough to get bloodwork. Ideas???!