Warning long

Bit of a rant. My mum is always defending my brother. So basically ive been ttc for 3 years and my brother is constantly making jokes about how my mum loves him more then me because he has given her grandbabies. (He knows im ttc so its a crappy thing to do) so i told her what he had been saying and she turns to me and straight up says "stop being jealous of him"... like im not being jealous of him im just upset at his complete lack of consideration. Anyway so i am always texting my mum and she literally never responds but whenever my sil text her she responds immediately.

My dad (who is the best) asked me to come stay with them a few weekends ago and she was so distracted with my bro and his kid that i didnt even have a flipping blanket to sleep with or pillows.

Anyway i told her about my hubby and my hoping to have a baby after my laproscopy. She was saying how i have to move back to where they live because id b cruel to have a baby 2 hours away from her. (Like she hasnt got time to text me back why should i pack up my entire life here so as to not be cruel to her).

Anyway the other day i told her that if i can finally fall i had offered to have my husbands mum for the delivery since itll be my mils first grandbaby and she lost it at me because she thinks im betraying her when she was at her first grandchild birth and she will be at the nexts ones in a few days. Like omg their is so much more but i just getting super tired of the whole thing. Sorry this is long 😕😕😕