Frustrated

My husband and I decided to start trying last April. I thought to myself "this should be easy and fun!" Boy was I wrong, still nothing. When I explain this frustration to my friends/family (who have kids). They say to me "if you can't have kids of your own, you can always adopt" is it selfish of me to just want a baby of my own? I want to be pregnant, I want that bond. I don't think people who have no problem having kids understand the frustration and sadness of the thought of maybe never being able to conceive and carry a child. ☹️