Would you go an event your husband wasn't invited to?

My cousin has a strong dislike for my husband for no reason other than me and her used to be close and then I got married, had a family and she's still single. If I talk to her and even mention the word "husband" or "my family" she flips out and tells me to stop rubbing our relationship in her face? Anyway she's having a graduation party (she just graduated from a masters program) and she wants me and my two kids (who are two and one) to come but said that my husband isn't welcome in her home. Apparently she's been telling some of our mutual friends that he abuses me when he absolutely does not! I told her I wouldn't be attending because my husband and I are package deal, so either our whole family come or none of us do. I also told her that I didn't want my kids being taught that it's ok to exclude their daddy from family events for no reason. She then used that as ammunition to say he's controlling me and brainwashing me?! She then says I better attend christmas at her home and  that my husband will not be invited or allowed in her home then either but I better show up or I'm abandoning my family (no one else in my family has a problem with him apart from her) and I'll be dead to them?! I've decided to attend nothing my husband isn't invited to also. What would you ladies do? 
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Why do you even still talk to this wackjob?! My hubby is #1.. you don't like him.. I don't like you
Why do you even still talk to this wackjob?! My hubby is #1.. you don't like him.. I don't like you

Ka

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Nope. I stand by my husband. That's what marriage is all about. Well any relationship really. If one of my family members didn't want him at an event then I wouldn't be there either.

Am

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I agree with you. Stick by your husband. He's done nothing wrong. She is an adult and is bashing your family. Toxic.

B.

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Nope - and I'd let the whole family know she's given you an ultimatum so unless someone else has it at their place, you're done with family events and won't be seeing any of them any time soon if she's the one calling the shots.Amazing she's still single...

La

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I wouldn't go either.

ka

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No I wouldn’t attend in your case! You’re right to not want to set that example in front of your kids. You’re a family and it’s wrong of her to exclude your husband and throw around unwarranted accusations. I mean it’s extremely disrespectful and rude for her to spread a rumor that your husband is abusive when he’s not and that right there would be enough for me to cut someone off.

Ma

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Drop her like a sack of hot potatoes... She jealous as fuck and wants to ruin what you got.
Drop her like a sack of hot potatoes... She jealous as fuck and wants to ruin what you got.

Ha

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I could see going if she had a legit reason for not liking him but she sounds crazy and jealous😂😂 stay at home and have your own party with your family. I'm petty af, when she gets married, I'd exclude tf out of her man.

my

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I definitely wouldn't go! Your husband is your family and she sounds like a wackjob smh 🙅‍♀️🤦‍♀️

ex

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Nah, I wouldn't attend. She's so blatantly disrespectful, If I were in your position wouldn't wanna associate myself or my children w her 🤷🏻‍♀️