I see a lot of women on here who ask when they should test and then say something like "but I'm scared to test because I don't want to it to be negative". I just want to share something that maybe will help. Think for a second about why you want to get pregnant--- for a baby! To nourish and care for and love another person. To care for someone other than yourself. And that journey stays when you start ttc. Testing isn't about you anymore-- it's also about your baby. If you are pregnant, you need to test so you can get your baby the help it needs to start off healthy and strong. If you aren't, then you need to prep for next month and that's okay! But just remember- this isn't about just you anymore. That sweet baby needs you to put aside your fears and test, even if you are afraid. I get that negative stink. I do! But don't let the fear of getting a negative cause you to miss out on a few extra days caring for that sweet babe. Good luck to you all, don't be afraid to test! ❤️