What are some tips you ladies have when it comes to having relationships with a man who is in the military? I just recently met the most handsome guy through my brother who also serves and well of course we are all distanced and I don't have anyone in my family or circle that has been in a relationship with someone in the military. Just some general do and don't or advice that anyone may have. We both are in good places with our paths, we are both working and I'm in school for my bachelors in Nursing. His name is Patrick and we are incredibly goofy and dumb while also smart, he has a dog too (which is the only reason I'm dating him). (;