I just had a 'missed miscarriage' and know that it is quite common. I would just like to say say to those mamas that are also expecting in May to think about whether you want to may that early announcement or not. We all want to be positive and of course we are excited but to have to tell those we love that are. then excited that it's not happening? I don't know what the right answer is. Some articles say share and then if you have a loss you will have a support structure. Just saying it's something to thing about. #distraught.