Anyone ever questioned their relationship with long time SO???

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Please feel free to say something about your situation... I’m kinda struggling right now

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I dated a guy for 4 years and we lived together but in the back of mind I knew it wasn't right. We argued so much. Towards the end I met a guy who pursued me heavily even though I told him I was in a serious relationship. Well that guy helped me see how messed up my relationship was just by how nice and caring he was. 
I broke up with my live-in boyfriend, got my bachelors, a new job, a new car, a new apartment all thanks to the confidence guy #2 gave me. 
We ultimately broke up and I am now happily married and expecting with a great guy, so glad I met guy #2 though, he changed my life for the better.

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he broke a promise on something that was a deal breaker for me. I felt and still do feel so disrespected and hurt by his actions. I love him deeply but I can't get over what happened and I dislike and resent him for the hurt he has caused me. I try to think about the positives he has brought to my life but it's overshadowed with what he done and I struggle every day, but at the same time can't imagine my life without him

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Been with my husband 13 years. I have questioned staying but not because of anything he did had depression in the early part of our relationship. He helped me through it.   I'm good now.  We just had our first baby 3 months ago.  I love that he is my husband and father to my child.

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I have had seconds thoughts on my relationship. I thought he would actually be happier without me me and it would be easier on him. And that everything he says he doesn't mean just wanting to make me happy. But I also have manic depression/anxiety and I have to think if it's true or if it's just my mental illness talking. After awhile I realized it's just my mental illness cause my bf is great in his own way. We've been together over 2 years now

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I guess it depends what you mean by long term... I feel like I always question things, until I don't anymore, because certain things become a given. I've been in several long term relationships and I was always wondering along the way. I'd ask myself about where things were going and where i wanted to end up. When things didn't match up, we broke up. My relationship now went the same way until we decided this was a permanent thing. At that point it's more like unless they do something totally fucked up, (and hopefully you find this possibility inconceivable) then there's nothing to question.

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meant to say yes but we're still together. when we has been dating about a year an half we went through a really rough patch and would barely talk to each other. I saw a girl had sent him a half naked picture while he was in the shower. I immediately confronted him and told him it was me or her and if I we not made. priority I would be packing to leave the next day. he told her he didn't want to talk to her again and blocked her on everything. we had a very very long discussion and he eventually earned my trust back. or relationship is better now.

Anyone ever questioned their relationship with long time SO???

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