ok so first of all, if you don’t have anything positive to say, don’t say anything at all. I don’t need the negativity, name calling, or saying it was a mistake, I’m too young, shouldn’t be having sex, etc etc. so just don’t comment, thanks.

Anyways, a little background... I’m 14, I turned 14 Very beginning on August. I’ve been sexually active for about 1 year now. Not on any form of birth control, and don’t really use condoms. The first few times I had sex, I had the guy stop before he came, just because I feared pregnancy. Then I met my current boyfriend in about mid May of this year. At first, we both knew that sex was a bit too much for us. About 2-3 months after we started dating, we decided we were ready. We were (& still are) madly in love with each other. He’s not a dirtbag, and I know for a fact that he won’t leave if I am pregnant. But we’ve had sex more times than I can count with both hands since then. No condoms, birth control, strictly relying on pulling out. I love him, and he loves me. Each time we’ve had sex, he’s came on my lower stomach or on my pubic area. I’m just now realizing how dangerous this is. We had sex right before I ovulated, but I tried to make sure none got in there. I know that what we’re doing is very very risky. Recently I’ve been having to go to bathroom A LOT more frequently, and and getting frequent headaches & stomach aches. I’m terrified that I may be pregnant. I took a pregnancy test, and it was negative, but I think it’s too early to tell since I haven’t missed my period yet. If I am pregnant, I don’t know how I’m going to tell my parents. They will KILL me. They are very religious. Anyways, I need advice, opinions, anything positive, really.