Bruising? Help???

Question

I'm quite small and I bruise super easily. When me and my boyfriend are having sex he has a tendency to grip my hips really hard. It doesn't really hurt in the moment, but the next morning I'll have bruising all around my hips and I usually try to hide them from him because I know he'll feel awful. It doesn't really bother me that much but the other day my mom saw the marks and now she thinks I'm in an abusive relationship. Help???

Answer

This is me too.
One time he went down on me and was playing around with my inner thighs I had horrible and painful bruises that lasted for about a month. Just like you it isn't bad when in the moment but I guess out bodies are just too sensitive. Now he just tries to be more gentle with me. Talk with your bf he would understand. If you still like him being rough with you then I guess establish so places were it's okay for him to do that so that you can hide them easily but also be aware than he doesn't do it too much because we still have to take care of our bodies. As for your mom, you either tell her the truth or make something up lol

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