Compromising

What do you do when you’ve already told your husband how you feel and how you aren’t getting attention or love that you need everyday? Nothing has changed and it seems like nothing will changed. Idk if he is depressed or what but i can’t live like I’m invisible to him. I never get any compliments, he never hugs me, and he kind of seems checked out. I am not getting the emotional attention that I need and have told him so many times. It’s making me become angry at every little thing. I’m just not happy. I feel like I’m not cared about. It’s obvious we have different love languages but what do you do when one doesn’t compromise? Marriage counseling is not going to help