Got caught in the crossfire (LONG STORY)

Andrea

So last night I stepped between my boyfriend and his best friend trying to calm them down. As things got violent my boyfriend actually stopped yelling gently moved me out of the way (and when I say gentle I mean he very calmly picked me up and set me off to the side and asked me to stay there😂) but then things got crazy. I guess I wasn't far enough away because as things escalated the friend shoved me and i took hit to the face. Then a few moments later with lots of screaming and another male friend trying to deescalate the situation, he got mad that the friend hit me and next thing you know it an all out brawl and my boyfriends even more mad because I got hit, well the good friend took the bad friend to the ground so I tried to grab the boyfriend and as I grabbed his arm the bad friend grabbed my arm and next thing I knew I was going down on top of the boyfriend who was now on top of both friends. I kept trying to get my arm out so I could get away and next thing I know I took a solid hit to the ribs from the bad friend who was swinging for the boyfriend and missed. I finally got my arm away and instantly couldn't breath. I started hyperventilating and throwing up and as soon as the guys realized what happened they all ran to me. Both friends ran for water while the boyfriend wrapped himself around me trying to get me to calm down and figure out where I was hurt. (Keep in mind I also have anxiety which didn't help) so there we are on the ground in the middle of a caliche pit trying not to puke, my boyfriends crying I'm crying the bad friend is crying, the good friend is trying to put everything in the car so we could leave.. everything calmed down and I took a walk so I wouldn't keep worrying everyone and I hear yelling AGAIN. They weren't getting violent but the boyfriend was definitely mad that I got hit. The friend apologized and said he wasn't aware of where I was and that it was an accident. At this point I realized just how bad the friend had it. Left eyes was already black and swollen. Pretty sure his nose was broke. The good friend had a fat lip and the boyfriend just had a tore up back from rolling on caliche with a cut off shirt. Things calmed down when I walked back to the car but when we got home the boyfriend ripped into me. He was crying and yelling about how I can't step between people now and how I'm high risk and I need to think about the baby and not him. I love him and I'm going to do anything I can to stop that situation but he's right. Plus I tried to stay out of the way when things got violent and I literally got pulled into it. Sometimes instinct kicks in and you don't stop and think about what can happen. Last night was a long night and this momma is sore today. There's not cramping or bleeding. We called a nurse last night and she told me that's they wouldn't be able to do anything. It's a small town so the only way to get a sono is to have an appointment. I'd have to transfer to a bigger hospital to get it done. So today I'll call my doctor and see what he say but other than a black eye and a bruised rib cage everything else feels fine. Also I'm only 5 weeks and 4 days. Both previous miscarriages happens between 6 and 8 weeks. I've been taking sticky medicine and all of my vitamins every day. Staying hydrated. Eating healthy. My boyfriend won't even let me pick up a gallon of milk. We've been doing everything we can.. hopefully this incident doesn't ruin all of our hard work.