So, me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 8 months. We don't have "a lot" of issues but there have been a couple big things I have talked about with him.

1. Porn

2. Finding girls underwear in his room

3. Asking him to keep his ex's stuff that he's kept away from where I can find it.

4. Other guys talking to me (and me being uncomfortable with it)

They are discussed. Voices don't get raised, we don't yell, or fight. But they are discussed and it has only gotten heated once. But I feel like we are "talking" about too many issues and we shouldn't even be having any.

If I keep bringing stuff up that makes me uncomfortable/needed to be talked about will I chase him away? I don't want our relationship to end but some of these things just need to be talked about.