October 9, 2017. It's halfway through my work day with no mention nor comment, not even an "I love you," before he left for work. No indication he even knows; though less than a month ago we had the conversation, for the fourth time, on when our anniversary is. I've gotten him a card, thoughtfully written inside, and his favorite handcrafted chocolates from our local creamery. He knows that things like this are important to me, even something simple is enough; knowing he remembers and cares is more important than the size, quantity or cost of any gift. Once again I'm left wondering, "am I enough?"