I guess I don't have any real friends, I invited them twice to, 2 different events and nothing, so now I know if they ever come back to me for anything the answer is "NO"... I'm there for everybody else and I'm always getting hurt behind it, I'm not doing it anymore, it's not worth it. 2 different events and everything was paid for, they didn't have to pay for anything at all,  it was paid for. So I guess reality has really shown me who they really are..smh (it's a few, more like 8 people)