My husband and I have been toying around with the idea of having another baby. We already have 3 kiddos and our youngest just turned 2. I gained quite a bit with our second and then got pregnant pretty quickly (probably too quickly) with our third and gained even more. The weight has been stubborn and I’ve been a bit discouraged. So...my husband told me “we can start trying when you lose 50 pounds” and I was kind of caught off guard. He’s always said that my weight isn’t a problem for him and that he thinks I’m beautiful the way I am. He is saying that he just wants me to be healthy for pregnancy but in the back of my head I can’t help but wonder if that’s really what it’s about or if he truly wants me to lose weight for more shallow reasons. Idk how to take it. Thoughts?