Need Advice about Husband

Lisa

So right now I am 11 weeks pregnant. My mother lives in California and I live in Texas. I was talking to her about helping me after the baby is born. She said she would like to be there two weeks before my due date (so she does not miss it) and stay a month after to help out. My husband says no. I dont know what to do. I’m very close with my mother and would love the help. This is my first after infertility- I never thought I would ever be pregnant. So my mom is very excited. I really want my mom around to help me and support me. I don’t want to tell her she can’t stay with us. She has no where else to stay and I think it’s outrageous to ask her to get a hotel for that long. I know it’s a long way away but it’s really stressing me out. I feel like he is just thinking about his own privacy. I don’t think he realizes how much it will help me to have another mom around.

Any advice?