my husband and I have been through 2 mcs already since we got married last year in April 30 but we have been together now for 8yrs. he knows I want to be a mother and he wants to be a father but he's scared. he wants to be financially fit which I do get but I feel if I wait it will never happen. to be honest he's always tired no matter what and it's to that point that i feel like I can't even make love with him anymore. I never hide my agenda he knows all about my stuff but I feel he can control when to have sex and not have sex I'm completely saddened by his decisions. anybody going through this?