Baby shower am I wrong

Lindsey

Sooo my future mother in law and my mom wanted to throw me a baby shower I’m due the end of February, first time mom and I like to be prepared. My future mother in law wanted my shower to be in January, I asked if we could have it in November and my sister in law is helping now and so is my best friend. So my friend and sister in law and mom all said I could have it in November, now my future MIL is mad at me because it’s not convenient to her to have my baby shower in November. Am I wrong for that? She is busy and has a lot doing on so my sister in law put her in charge of one thing and the rest she will take care of. Aren’t baby showers for the mom and baby? 🤷‍♀️