okay, my son will be 10 months on the 12th of October. i have had a little bit of problems of him sleeping all night so i wanted to try a schedule, i mentioned it my grandma and she went ape shit pretty much saying, how would u like to be on a schedule i asked my grandpa something and she said well lacy are u sure its time for u to that with being on a schedule and all. gosh it pisses me off. i get judged on everything. and something else when we visit them and my baby falls and crys i go to pick him up to make sure hes okay and to calm him down someone always ends up taking him from me and doing what i needed to do as a parent, yes i apreshate the help they do for me like when he wont sleep for me and they get him to nap for me or go to bed but sometimes when it should be my place to do something they take over. and when i say something my grandma does the opossite. seems like when we visit them the only time im needed is when he poops then my gma wants me to take him to change him. logan does want my grandparents sometimes but its like i am his mother and i do want him ya know, im probaby over reacting but it does piss me off. and on another note my grandma in law trys to guilt trip me cause we dont live near or with her anymore we have our own place 2 hours away from her cause she does try and take over with my husband telling him what he needs to do and what he doesnt need to do and puts her nose where it doesnt belong. my son dont want nothing to do with her cause well he doesnt see her much and hes just dont like her like she gives him a vibe i guess. and one last thing when i said when logan was born was that no smoking around him at all did anyone listen ? no they just run over me.