Delivery Day and Family

Am I the only one with rude family members? I read a lot of comments and stories about how the parents to be family members are just so respectful to any choices they make liiike?

1. Who they want in the room during birth.

2. Who they want to come and visit baby first.

3. Waiting 24 hours before any of the family members see the baby.

My fiancé family are respectful to our choices we have made about the BIG DAY. But mine not so much. Well at least one person has a big problem, my mother 🤦🏻‍♀️

I only want my fiancé and hospital staff in my room during delivery. This is my first baby and nervous about delivery but I only want to experience it with the man who helped me get here ya know? And when the baby is born I want my fiancé and I to spend quality time alone with the baby for 12-24 hours I just don't wanna bring to much in her with all the flashing cameras and everyone wanting to hold her. To prevent a fight from someone trying to snatch our first born away so they can have a turn to hold her I rather us just have our time alone. But my mother 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ she thinks just because this is her first grandchild she should be in the room to and get to see her be born when I insist on her not being in there she gets mad. She does not " approve" on the arrangement I have made about everyone waiting till we are ready for everyone to come and see her at the hospital.. again,, she thinks just because it's her first grand baby she should be the first to come and the one to come right when she comes out 🤦🏻‍♀️ she literally gets mad and shuts down when I tell her no. yes this is her first grand child. This is also my fiancé familys first child from him. It's our first baby. Anyone els have family like this?