I hate when people say “oh you better sleep while you can” or “you won’t be able to do anything by yourself again” and basically making it seem like your life is over when you have a child 😩 this is my first, and I know that the first few months/weeks will be a little hard but I just don’t believe life is over. They should be uplifting first time moms and telling us not to worry. Sometimes I sit here and get scared because I feel like things won’t be the same with my life, relationship, etc. but then I think it really can’t be that bad. I think it’ll be fine!