HELP PLEASE RELATIONSHIP ADVICE NEEDED

So me and my bf broke up a night or two ago but we got back together the next morning. This is my dilemma.

So the night me and My bf basically broke up he went out with some friends while I was at my moms crying , he was gonna go to a strip club with them but since the club was closed they didn’t go. It was heartbreaking to find out because he was so quick to go and “hoe around “ literally within a few hours after breaking up like he wanted to take the opportunity to go be with other girls , what makes it worse is that we talk about how he has never gone through a “hoe phase” I guess so he says that he’s worried that one point in his life he’s gonna want to mess around and he’ll have to break up with me to do that , he tells me that he loves me and what not but ever since I found out that right after we broke up he wanted to mess around with other girls I don’t think he actually loves me that he’s just in love with the thought of having me around. And it’s super heartbreaking cause I actually care about him and want to have a future with him , like I never want kids but I know he wants them and I’m willing to do that for him , but it hurts hearing him say I love you now cause all I can think about is if you really love someone you wouldn’t go out like that right after I sat at my moms house crying all night and was telling myself I wasn’t gonna try and be with anyone for a looooong time but he took the opportunity within a few hours of breaking up.