Since Sunday I’ve been full of cold, aching, a AWFUL barking cough and almost loosing my voice etc. My s/o has been pretty horny over the past few days and I’ve said to him on Sunday and Monday that I didn’t feel up to doing anything because of how draining this cold made me feel.

I’ve felt a bit better today so was a bit flirty with him, but by the time we got some time alone (after our son had gone to bed) I made our tea, and afterwards I felt like I’d been hit by a lorry. My head was pounding, cough was terrible and just felt absolute rubbish.

My s/o went quiet with me (so I knew something was up) I asked him what and he said “you said earlier that we were going to have some fun and you haven’t done anything about it...”

I didn’t really know what to say.. I feel bad for being flirty (but when i said it I had every intention in doing what I’d said) but just didn’t know my cold would make me feel so rubbish again.

He said it’s fine and that he understands, but I still feel bad for letting him down

How could I make it upto him?