sex toy shame

so I need a wee bit of help here, if u can....so this weekend, we turned it up a notch and decided to get toys, OK. After we had sex (which was amazing BTW) he left the room and sat in front of TV, didnt look up when i enter the room, and then we just went to bed, he didnt look at me all night, and when we went to sleep he didnt even touch me. (cuddling is a nightly event) The next day we woke up early to go on a planned kayak trip, he finally looks at me for a quick glance when I mention that I felt guilty, for the night before. Nada he says nothing, by now I get it I'm getting the silent treatment, we finally talked about it but by now my body confidence has been shut down, I don't see my SO anymore in a sexual way, I can't stand him being remotely in my personal space. Has anyone had some kind of experience like this, is there something we can do to work past it or is it over?