Racist slurs during sex?

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I’m seeing this guy at the moment, he’s black, I’m white, and during sex he loves making me say that I love his black dick, etc, but the other day he asked me to say ‘I love your n**** dick’ - I felt really uncomfortable saying it, and told him so, but he was begging me to say it.... want to hear people’s opinions on this...

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My fiancé is black... that's not normal for him to want you to say "n*****" under any circumstances. Seems as though he's fetishizing in an unhealthy way.

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Sex isn’t enjoyable if you’re uncomfortable. 
Tell him your ladyboner goes down and it turns you off.

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Ugh this would make me extremely uncomfortable for several reasons. It would make me rethink why he is with me .

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If that’s his kink so be it. But if you don’t feel comfortable saying it draw a line and don’t say it.

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I hear you, I guess just cause it’s like a casual thing, not a dating thing, we just getting freaky together now and again, it’s just a self-depreciating fetish he clearly is into. He only asked me to do it once so far. It doesn’t necessarily turn me off, it just feels really wrong and offensive to say.

Racist slurs during sex?

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