is this wrong?

so my bf and i have been together for 8 months and sometimes i still find myself thinking about my ex. not in a romantic way or wishing we were together, but just sometimes i wish my current boyfriend would do the things my ex did. for example, my ex used to write me these long paragraphs about how much he loved me and all these things but my current bf doesn’t do that. he’s done it maybe 5 times total in 8 months and my ex would do it maybe a few times every week to wake up to. i’ve talked to my current bf about how i wish he would write to me but it’s just not his style. he’s not good with his words so its harder for him. is it wrong that sometimes i miss the little things like that? i don’t miss my actual ex because he ended up being abusive, but just the actions if that makes sense.