Not sexually satisfied

So when I give my husband a blow job I sometimes make him cum and then we have sex and sometimes I just jump on it without letting him finish with just the blow job. So tonight I gave him a blow job til he finished and then we were suppose to have sex... Well that didn't happen. He cleaned himself went to pee came back and apparently couldn't get hard again. I even tried to get him hard again and he just wouldn't so I got disappointed and just said let's go to sleep 😔... Giving him a blow job is a huge turn on for me so here I am soaking wet while he's snoring next to me. I don't know what to do. I always take care of his needs but seems like my satisfaction doesn't matter. It's not like he couldn't have played with me or ate me out (which he barely does.. I don't think I even remember the last time he did) I'm just so frustrated right now. I love him to death but I don't get to feel sexually satisfied often.. I've always had a higher sex drive than him. Am I overreacting?