Seeing this guy. He seems nice but I don’t believe in having sex outside of a committed, boyfriend/girlfriend relationship and this guy basically told me “how do you know if a relationship is worth pursuing if you don’t know if the sex is good or if there is sexual chemistry” I like this guy but I don’t want to feel pressured into letting go of my values for him. I don’t know if I’m just being too uptight or if he is in the wrong.

Please help.

I am intimate with him like with just about everything else but sex I save exclusively for relationships