Baby scare and leaving her dad for good

So baby girl was laying on my chest and outta nowhere she lifts her head up and gasps for air like she stopped breathing or something... so I could the after hour line at her doctor and they told me to call 911 ASAP I freak out wakes up her dad he’s always the relaxed one telling me to calm down.. so I call 911 explain to them wat happen and why the doctor told me to call.. long story short they said she’s ok and not to worry.. however her dad goes off bc I woke him up n said “I want something to be wrong with the baby so bad” crushed me I tried to explain that I was doing wat was told.. I don’t think I can be with him after that comment just thankful she’s ok