I'm not trying to be judgmental I would just like to understand something I've seen a lot on here. I get that sometimes accidents happen but why try to get pregnant before you get married. If someone is willing to actively get pregnant by boyfriend/fiancé then why not get married first. If you aren't ready to marry that person or that person isn't ready to marry you then maybe a baby with that person should be put on hold. Again not judging just curious.